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My boyfriend wants to break up over too many petty arguments. To me, they are molehills because I truly love him & don't really think twice about them. If he loved me would he work through it?

15.06.2025 12:11

My boyfriend wants to break up over too many petty arguments. To me, they are molehills because I truly love him & don't really think twice about them. If he loved me would he work through it?

I will answer your question with a question:

I can’t honestly say I blame him for breaking up with you. Constant fights over things you don’t even care about? That seems like problematic behavior to me.

That’s a strange way to show you love someone.

Family scapegoats with years of healing: what events or thoughts precipitated your full acceptance of your family's narcissistic dynamic? Can you share your inner thoughts as you reached it? How do we know when we have reached full acceptance?

If you love him, why do you argue with him over “molehills” that don’t matter to you? Is that how you express love, by fighting over things you just said you don’t even think twice about?

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